Kinks To Explore – From A to Z
A is for:
Adoration
Adoration is the heart-opening and paradigm-shattering experience of worship, respect and reverence. Cultivated through play, you will discover your own adoration, and not just for Mommy, but also for all the women in your life, and for the feminine within you.
B is for:
Bondage
Restrained by rope or cuffs, completely at Mommy’s tender mercy, there you are freed from the burden of choice and decision. When bound, you can let go, and allow your mind to quiet and find peace.
C is for:
Cock cage & chastity
The symbolism of being put in a cock cage, or chastity device, is an act of desexualizing. It works by freeing you of sexual pressure and humbling your desire to sexually perform. It is an excellent tool to help you embody your inner little, middle, sissy or pet.
D is for:
Domination & submission
At the heart of Domination and submission (D/s) is the dynamic of control. Mommy is given the opportunity to play as Someone who has control and gives orders. And the submissive plays as someone who gives up having control over some areas of their life, and follows Mommy’s commands.
E is for:
Etiquette & protocol
Etiquette and protocol can be thought of as the “rules of engagement” that define the dynamic between Mommy and Her submissive, which creates precision, intention and clarity.
F is for:
F**k around & find out
Do you think that you can get away with it? That Mommy won’t notice, or care, when you f**k around with your agreements and break your word? In this dynamic, there will be consequences.
G is for:
Good & bad
Simply put, good & right behavior is rewarded, and bad & wrong behavior is punished. But what if your perspective on what is good or bad is skewed, and unreliable? Mommy clearly knows the difference, and She will help you learn it too.
H is for:
Hairstyles & hair removal
Mommy is very stylish. Whether you’re Her little, middle, sissy or pet, She’s going to make sure you’re looking good. Wigs, haircuts and/or waxing can do wonders to help you embody your inner submissive.
I is for:
Impact play
Sometimes, you may need a good spanking.
J is for:
Just being you
Playing with Mommy is an opportunity for you to be appreciated, just the way you are. She wants to encourage you, help you, and empower you to live a healthy, happy life.
K is for:
Kneeling
At Mommy’s feet you shall lay, waiting for Her to see you, pet you, embrace you, feed you and play with you. From the floor, you gaze up at your beloved Mommy, and you know your place is there, at Her feet.
L is for:
littles & middles
littles and middles are archetypes that embody childlike or youthful play, behaving as babies, or all the way through childhood and teenage years. In this D/s dynamic, submissives are seeking comfort, care, and guidance from their Mommy, as well as accountability, and if needed, punishments for “bad” behavior.
M is for:
Mommy Domina
Mommy plays as the personification of the archetypal Divine Feminine and Mother. She is a nurturing, supportive and caring Domina (or FemDom), but will dish out punishments when necessary and desired. In a D/s dynamic with Her, submission is cultivated through archetypal roleplay, with the submissive embodying a little, middle, pet, or sissy persona.
N is for:
Neverland
An imaginary world where Mommy and you can play. It is a safe space where dreams can become reality.
O is for:
Online connection
In this increasingly virtual world, how humans interact has changed from mostly in-person to now mostly remote. Mommy is tech-savvy and has created an online experience that feels connected and supportive. Even though you may be physically separated by thousands of kilometers, Mommy is here for you, just a text message or video chat away.
P is for:
Pet Play
Find your animal persona and play with Mommy. Are you Her little puppy or Her sweet kitty cat? She will give you treats and commands, reward you for being good, and punish you when you’re bad.
Q is for:
Quitting habits
Sometimes habits can have a negative impact and take control of your life. When this happens, it can feel very challenging to overcome on your own. Mommy will help you identify toxic habits and assist you with eliminating them from your life.
R is for:
Role play
With Mommy, you play pretend. Who are you going to be? What part of yourself do you want to let out to play? Mommy welcomes your inner little, middle, pet and sissy.
S is for:
Sissification & cross-dressing
Inside you is a femme who wants to come out. Mommy wants to dress you up in pretty girl clothes, do your makeup, style your wig, and make you feel like a beautiful sissy.
T is for:
Twenty-four/seven (24/7) dynamics
When Mommy is in a D/s dynamic with you, you will be engaging with your kinks daily. Whether it’s texting Mommy a photo of your lunch, or wearing lingerie under your work clothes, Mommy wants Her presence to influence all aspects of your life.
U is for:
Undoing beliefs
What stories do you tell yourself that makes you miserable? What beliefs do you hold that cause disconnection from your most authentic self? Through exploration and play, Mommy is here to help you unpack what no longer serves you.
V is for:
Voluntary vs “forced”
There is a fun way to play with consensual non-consent. A sub who is willing to follow Mommy’s orders will be rewarded for their efforts. But sometimes, a reward is not enough incentive for a sub to get outside their comfort zone, even though Mommy wants it to happen. Mommy enjoys a well-negotiated power dynamic, where Her efforts become more forceful and ultimately pushes the sub to obey.
W is for:
Working out & eating right
Mommy is a long-time fitness instructor and She loves to eat healthy foods. If you’re struggling to control your eating habits and/or lack the discipline to work-out regularly, Mommy can help you create a healthier lifestyle.
X is for:
XXX & porn control
Do you struggle with your porn addiction? Have you replaced real-life intimacy with watching porn instead? Mommy is here to help you overcome this, and other toxic habits.
Y is for:
Yes and no
Words have power… but only if you know how to use them powerfully. Do you say yes when you mean no – or vice versa? Do you struggle to voice your desires, needs, wants and dreams? With Mommy, you’ll learn how to communicate with integrity.
Z is for:
Zen
Do you find yourself unable to be in the present moment, because of the noise and the racing thoughts in your head? Through play, a submissive can experience what Mommy calls moments of zen… that is, feeling the mind quiet and the nervous system relax.
